Bethany-itude

Bethany has an ease in approaching others, both friends and strangers. Fortunately, she is not outright fearless; that could be bad. She does have a guarded approach, but much in contrast to those of us who have such a fear of offending or being embarrassed that we don’t even try to approach someone.

She definitely enjoys observing others and then wants to join in; seems to genuinely like to help.

If a child is crying or struggling with something, she’ll approach, observe quietly and then do or say what she can to ease the situation.

If someone drops something, she rushes up to pick it up for them.

In most cases the adults seem pleasantly surprised when she walks up to them and starts asking questions and expressing an interest in them.

With the kids the reaction varies, sometimes it’s “Hey! A friendly face.” At other times it is more “Mind your own business!”. The latter attitude, Bethany doesn't always detect. That’s a little sad to see her keep trying. Or, maybe it should be inspiring to see her keep trying.

In a group of peers, she will often try to lead–but then is flexible enough to follow when another takes control.

Around the house, she is often asking to help. She likes to join in on the cleaning, cooking and to assist in repairs. Unfortunately, we usually have let efficiency and expediency get in the way, and refuse her help. Gotta watch that! We want her to retain that eagerness, when she is a teenager and we badly need the help. Please!!